From: Jaarsma, Ryan
Sent: Thursday, March 06, 2008 4:05 PM
To: Pine Rest - Everyone
Subject: HMGR e-zine (supported by Pine Rest Family Institute)

 

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March 2008 e-zine               

 

Marriage & Family Building Series

A monthly luncheon series to help equip pastors, lay leaders, and clinicians            

 

Mar. 12

Dr. Ryan Jaarsma & Steve Carter

"PRE Premarital Prep: For Youth"

 

Apr. 16

Remi Rakipi, MSW, CSW

"Supporting Intimacy in Marriage: Challenges of the 21st Century"

 

May 14

"Two Churches, One Marriage"

Dr. Lee Williams

 

June 4

Dr. Froma Walsh

"Strengthening Family Resilience"

 

Pine Rest Main Campus

Postma Center

11:30-1:00pm

Cost: $10 each, lunch included.

Call 616.455.5279 to register

 

A bi-weekly marriage program with mentor couples and a facilitator

 

Mar. 6 & 20

Thornapple Covenant Church

6:30 - 8:30pm

Cost: free

Childcare provided

Call 616.363.5078

 

Secrets for Successful Marriage 

Premarital Workshop

 

Apr. 5, 12 19

May 3,10,17

June 7,14,21

Register online or call 616.455.5279

 

A weekly marriage prep class for couples marrying in a court setting   

 

March 1,15, & 29, 8:30am-12:30pm

March 4 & 18, 6-10pm

Apr. 1, 15 & 29, 6-10pm

Apr. 12 & 26, 8:30am-12:30pm

Cost: $30 per couple

Call 616.455.5279

 

 

A research based, skills building curriculum designed to help couples communicate more effectively.

 

Pine Rest O&A Building

 

Dates in 2008:

Mar. 29, Apr. 26, June 3 & June 10

Cost: $100 per couple

Call 616.281.6450

 

 

 

 

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HMGR partners with the

Pine Rest Family Institute

 

 

 

 

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Opportunities:

1. Talk to your pastor / church leadership about starting The Third Option in your church

 

2. Talk to your community center about how to get a Family Wellness group started

 

For more opportunities, call 616.455.5279

 

Reaching Youth With Relationship Skills

 

Sign up for presentation of "relationship smarts" for teens (Wednesday, March 12, 11:30am-1pm)

Divorce.  Cohabitation.  Abusive relationships.  All of these factors point to a larger societal need: the need to provide youth with the skills to build healthy relationships.  Pre-marital preparation is a good start, but it is not enough.  We need to get adolescents thinking about how to make smart choices for themselves in relationships.  The truth is, although they're very interested in dating, teens don't know how to date.  They know what they've seen on TV, and they know what they've read on the internet.  In fact they know a lot more than their parents do about My.Space, blogging, chat-rooms and other technological wonders.  What they don't know are the tools for successful relationship building.  What we often don't know is how to teach them and reach them in a way that they can take in.  This presentation will focus on ways to make a difference in the lives of teens, so they can establish early patterns of healthy relationship building.

Click here for information on how to register for this luncheon featuring Dr. Ryan Jaarsma and Steve Carter.

 

Bringing "Family Wellness" to Grand Rapids

 

Program creators George Doub & Flo Creighton lead 4 day seminar in skill building

 

Just last week, the Pine Rest Family Institute hosted the 4-day, interactive instructor training for Family Wellness: Survival Skills in Grand Rapids at the Postma Center.  Thirty-four facilitators (some from local agencies, some from as far away as Florida and Las Vegas) were trained and certified to teach Family Wellness in their communities.

 

What is Family Wellness you ask?  It is a simple, yet brilliant program that teaches families how to work better together by learning how to speak, listen, and cooperate.

 

Click here to read how Family Wellness works.

 

 

 

Third Option Smoothes Marriage's Rough Spots

 

As appeared in the Grand Rapids Press on Saturday, March 01, 2008

 

Erik and Laura Christian have been married more than nine years, have three children, and are clearly in love.  

 

But love alone cannot prevent all of their problems, and frustration sent them to their pastor, the Rev. Allen Pickett, of Knapp Street Reformed Church.

 

Pickett referred them to Third Option, a new church-based marriage program with mentoring at its core. Volunteer mentors serve as living examples of how couples can get through the tough times and come out strong.

 

Click here to read the rest of the article by Kristina Riggle. 

 

Click here to find out how you can join The Third Option.

Overcoming 21st Century Challenges to Intimacy in Marriage

by Remi Rakipi, MSW, CSW

 

As Christians, we are taught from an early age to abstain from sex until married, and many of us were rightfully excited for that day to arrive.  However, once married, many Christian couples find that they are disillusioned or disappointed or that they are not prepared to deal with the challenges they face in the bedroom. 

 

Unfortunately, the culture of the 21st Century does little to help foster healthy marriages, especially with respect to sex.

 

Click here for the rest of Remi's article.

 

Click here for information about registering for the April 16 Marriage and Family Building Series luncheon with Remi Rakipi.

 

Healthy Marriages Grand Rapids (HMGR) is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization dedicated to helping adults and young people learn skills which enable successful relationships and marriages.  We serve as an advocate and resource for marriage education and support programs which help teach relationship skills.  HMGR is non-political, and our activities are funded through support from private donations and the Pine Rest Family Institute.

 

 

 

 

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